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Secret of Happy life | choose present over past and future

 Choose your present over past and future | secret of a happy life Life is just like a lesson we learn, gain knowledge, try to adjust in new environment or phase of life and throughout our life we learn we implement and this is how life goes on.  Sometimes we achieve our goals sometimes we don't, sometimes we fail and at another time we got success. Life is like ups and down, there is happiness as well as sadnesses.  If you are facing problems, have financial issues, have family trouble, have social pressures, dear this is what life is.  Try to live in a current situation, because you can give best of you and you have situations in your hand. Not to look at past and future because you have nothing to do with that and ofcourse you cannot. If past is full of regrets then try to understand that you can't do anything what you have done wrong in past. Try to learn from mistake and move on.  And why looking at future ? Achieve your goals one by one, have patience and ...
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Stubbornness in children

 I have seen number of mothers complain about their child that they behave not properly and they misbehaved in front of their parents. Children are the one who learn by observing the environment provided by the parents and the family members. To reduce the stubbornness in child you should minimise the strictness over the child. Because when a child is in higher stage of anger mother or father should not be as same as the child in the higher level of anger but one should play a role to calm down. 

Give your child some space and some time to realize but he have done.

Do not scold your child in front of any other person.

Do not compare your child in term of is ability is in academics and as well as in sports and any area.

Accept your child as an individual personality who have his own likes and dislikes and he has his own way of expressing his abilities in an area.

Give your child freedom in a controlled environment.

Do not always point out the mistakes of your child whether it is very small to neglect.

Do not project your anger, your stress on your child because he is the one who can suffer.

Set rules and regulations not only for the child but for all the family members and child can learn by observing all of the family members.

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