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Secret of Happy life | choose present over past and future

 Choose your present over past and future | secret of a happy life Life is just like a lesson we learn, gain knowledge, try to adjust in new environment or phase of life and throughout our life we learn we implement and this is how life goes on.  Sometimes we achieve our goals sometimes we don't, sometimes we fail and at another time we got success. Life is like ups and down, there is happiness as well as sadnesses.  If you are facing problems, have financial issues, have family trouble, have social pressures, dear this is what life is.  Try to live in a current situation, because you can give best of you and you have situations in your hand. Not to look at past and future because you have nothing to do with that and ofcourse you cannot. If past is full of regrets then try to understand that you can't do anything what you have done wrong in past. Try to learn from mistake and move on.  And why looking at future ? Achieve your goals one by one, have patience and ...

Hadsa drama criticism| no consent taken from victim

Hadsa | A psychological analysis 
Hadsa drama on geo tv recently face criticism because the story is based on the motorway incident. And per the resources, according to victim no consent was taken and this is ethicaly wrong. Any director or producer have no right to make a story on someone who is already going through a lot of things and most important this drama will again renew her negative thinking, despair, insecurities, traumatic flashes, etc.
How can you make a drama on someone's life?? 
Where are the ethical considerations?
Our media only want views, publicity, fame, money, etc. 
The victim still didn't get any lead of her case and so as justice is not done. Victim reported that how can makers on air her traumatic life incident without asking for permission?
Victim said that she still facing problem in going back to her normal daily life routine. The emotions and mental state of victim is very much important and no matter how long the drama serial is , it should be stop immediately. 
What about the actors who play role in this drama? Don't they realize the sensitivity of the incident?
I am asking Hadiqa kiani why ? 
Don't you realize the pain of victim?


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