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Secret of Happy life | choose present over past and future

 Choose your present over past and future | secret of a happy life Life is just like a lesson we learn, gain knowledge, try to adjust in new environment or phase of life and throughout our life we learn we implement and this is how life goes on.  Sometimes we achieve our goals sometimes we don't, sometimes we fail and at another time we got success. Life is like ups and down, there is happiness as well as sadnesses.  If you are facing problems, have financial issues, have family trouble, have social pressures, dear this is what life is.  Try to live in a current situation, because you can give best of you and you have situations in your hand. Not to look at past and future because you have nothing to do with that and ofcourse you cannot. If past is full of regrets then try to understand that you can't do anything what you have done wrong in past. Try to learn from mistake and move on.  And why looking at future ? Achieve your goals one by one, have patience and you will get you
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Dua Zehra case


Dua zehra case

According to Dua zehra, she won the legal Battle of her custody. Incident of Dua, become national news and attend public attention. People continue to follow her case. Dua zehra explain the behaviour of a parents that the use to beat her scold her punisher and they were not agreed on the matter of Zaheer. Now the thing is that how she reached to Lahore in this very young age without having much knowledge about the transport system and the environment around her. In the recent interview she explain her journey that she took the rickshaw outside from her house and go to the Karachi taxi stand. She further explain that she took a taxi and without informing the zaheer she reached to the Punjab University. She did not have any phone with her and that is very mysterious to know. How she know that the he will be available at Punjab University and also will he accept her as she did not inform him before going out from her house. further she explain that the he paid her Total fare of about 22000 to that taxi driver. And there is another mysterious thing that they got married at the same day and the question is how and why Zaheer family accept Dua in a very short period of time. In all of the interviews of Dua which were very initial she used to repeat the same word same statement. How she get the enough confidence to go through these matters? All the efforts were made just to keep zehra in Lahore with her husband. As per the psychological analysis her body language seem to be very mysterious, her hand movement seems to be very mysterious. How she took this decision without knowing the actual meaning of marriage and she betray her parents in front of the whole society. 

Dua currently in her adolescent age, at this age an individual maybe at high risk of making the wrong decisions. This is the age that is very complicated as well as this is the very sensitive period of life where an individual needs proper attention, guidness and treatment. As she is not mature enough to look but she have done to herself and her parents. 

My message is for all the parents out there just to listen to their children and understand them according to their needs and demands. And my message is also for all the children out there please respect your parents do not betray them behave politely. 





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