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Secret of Happy life | choose present over past and future

 Choose your present over past and future | secret of a happy life Life is just like a lesson we learn, gain knowledge, try to adjust in new environment or phase of life and throughout our life we learn we implement and this is how life goes on.  Sometimes we achieve our goals sometimes we don't, sometimes we fail and at another time we got success. Life is like ups and down, there is happiness as well as sadnesses.  If you are facing problems, have financial issues, have family trouble, have social pressures, dear this is what life is.  Try to live in a current situation, because you can give best of you and you have situations in your hand. Not to look at past and future because you have nothing to do with that and ofcourse you cannot. If past is full of regrets then try to understand that you can't do anything what you have done wrong in past. Try to learn from mistake and move on.  And why looking at future ? Achieve your goals one by one, have patience and ...

Learning by insight

Kohler was famous for learning by insight he conducted an experiment on monkeys and prove that monkeys have higher chance to use their intelligence as the situation provide them a chance to utilize it. He provided natural environment to the monkeys. He placed a wooden box and hang the bananas higher in the cage. When one of the monkeys entered the cage he wanted that bananas but those were so high that he cannot reach to them easily. Then by exploring the environment and the things around him in the cage he drag the box and then he utilise that box is stand on it and reach to the bananas. It is provide by the observations and experiments that human learning is based more on the intelligence then on trial and error type of learning...

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