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Secret of Happy life | choose present over past and future

 Choose your present over past and future | secret of a happy life Life is just like a lesson we learn, gain knowledge, try to adjust in new environment or phase of life and throughout our life we learn we implement and this is how life goes on.  Sometimes we achieve our goals sometimes we don't, sometimes we fail and at another time we got success. Life is like ups and down, there is happiness as well as sadnesses.  If you are facing problems, have financial issues, have family trouble, have social pressures, dear this is what life is.  Try to live in a current situation, because you can give best of you and you have situations in your hand. Not to look at past and future because you have nothing to do with that and ofcourse you cannot. If past is full of regrets then try to understand that you can't do anything what you have done wrong in past. Try to learn from mistake and move on.  And why looking at future ? Achieve your goals one by one, have patience and ...

minorities in Pakistan 2023 ( incident of christian community)

 Situation of Minorities in Pakistan

A very sad incident taken place in Jaranwala, which is located in the Fasialabad. The news and videos of that incident circulating around social media. Around 16 buildings (including the church and holy places of christians) were brunt by the mob. Most of the houses were destroyed and burned by the mob. Christian people ran away from their houses to get their self secure from the mob. 

Why that incident happen?

One day, a sudden news came that the christian people are involved in blasphemy.

And without analyzing and confirming the news , there were the 6 people who lead the mob and went to their community to do evil act. 

This is not first time in Pakistan, that minorities were attacked brutally. No one have right to punish anyone even if there is evidence. Because system have responsibility to do so. This is not the right way and Islam doesn't teaches us to do things like that.

Killing people, destroying their houses, holy places, this is not what Islam is. 

Islam is a religion of peace . There are some sort of people who do not follow Islam and its values but should show their extreme anger in the name of Islam.

How can we defend ourselves as a nation in front of whole world?

Who are we?

What we want to accomplish by doing so?

Which image we are creating?

The whole incident was not covered by only local media but also international media like BBC news, al jazeerah, etc.

As a nation we should respect everyone and show unconditional acceptance.

My love , support and condolence to christian community.


We are sorry for the loss. 



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