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Secret of Happy life | choose present over past and future

 Choose your present over past and future | secret of a happy life Life is just like a lesson we learn, gain knowledge, try to adjust in new environment or phase of life and throughout our life we learn we implement and this is how life goes on.  Sometimes we achieve our goals sometimes we don't, sometimes we fail and at another time we got success. Life is like ups and down, there is happiness as well as sadnesses.  If you are facing problems, have financial issues, have family trouble, have social pressures, dear this is what life is.  Try to live in a current situation, because you can give best of you and you have situations in your hand. Not to look at past and future because you have nothing to do with that and ofcourse you cannot. If past is full of regrets then try to understand that you can't do anything what you have done wrong in past. Try to learn from mistake and move on.  And why looking at future ? Achieve your goals one by one, have patience and you will get you
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Petrol price, electricity bills | stress, depression, hand to mount situation

 This article is specially for those who lives and earn in Pakistan. This is very sad to see that in Pakistan inflation is increasing day by day and most of the people don't have enough resources to meet with the current economical condition of Pakistan.  People find difficult to fulfill their basic needs of food, shelter and security. The cases of snatching increasing with the time. The level of comfort to live in Pakistan becoming unbearable. Today on 1st of September 2023, petrol prices are again revised and now it is at 305 rupees. Few years back, the situation was not like as it is now. Things are getting out of the hand and most of the people don't find any solution. Specially people with jobs and limited salaries find difficult to feed their family the same as they used to be.  This is very miserable condition and maybe many people develop suicidal ideation or negative thinking pattern. The news of inflation making us more vulnerable to stress, anxiety and depression. Th

Hadsa drama criticism| no consent taken from victim

Hadsa | A psychological analysis  Hadsa drama on geo tv recently face criticism because the story is based on the motorway incident. And per the resources, according to victim no consent was taken and this is ethicaly wrong. Any director or producer have no right to make a story on someone who is already going through a lot of things and most important this drama will again renew her negative thinking, despair, insecurities, traumatic flashes, etc. How can you make a drama on someone's life??  Where are the ethical considerations? Our media only want views, publicity, fame, money, etc.  The victim still didn't get any lead of her case and so as justice is not done. Victim reported that how can makers on air her traumatic life incident without asking for permission? Victim said that she still facing problem in going back to her normal daily life routine. The emotions and mental state of victim is very much important and no matter how long the drama serial is , it should be stop

Natasha Hussain and Nadir Ali podcast

Natasha Hussain, famous model and actress, recently share her views about the host Nadir Ali. As we all know that Nadir Ali one of the famous and successful YouTuber, who currently running his show. He invites people from different fields like from showbiz, social activist, religious personality, controversial personality, and so and so forth. It has been seen number of times that Nadir Ali drag the conversation to next level where he actually degrading the women. He uses to talk about who is pretty or ugly, he used to talk about the skin color of women, and more likely to drag conversation towards sexism. I don't know why now a days double meaning conversation is so much common and normal in TV or social media.  Personally, myself as a women and a psychologist, I observe that he actually needs to go through from the ethics of conducting a interview. The guests sometimes feel uncomfortable, Nadir Ali feel no hesitation in talking about the kissing scenes of the actors and he actual

minorities in Pakistan 2023 ( incident of christian community)

 Situation of Minorities in Pakistan A very sad incident taken place in Jaranwala, which is located in the Fasialabad. The news and videos of that incident circulating around social media. Around 16 buildings (including the church and holy places of christians) were brunt by the mob. Most of the houses were destroyed and burned by the mob. Christian people ran away from their houses to get their self secure from the mob.  Why that incident happen? One day, a sudden news came that the christian people are involved in blasphemy. And without analyzing and confirming the news , there were the 6 people who lead the mob and went to their community to do evil act.  This is not first time in Pakistan, that minorities were attacked brutally. No one have right to punish anyone even if there is evidence. Because system have responsibility to do so. This is not the right way and Islam doesn't teaches us to do things like that. Killing people, destroying their houses, holy places, this is not w

Non verbal learning test in Pakistan

Learning is a process of gaining or acquiring knowledge through study, experience, observation, etc. Learning is a complex process it utilizes your senses to capture and gain the knowledge.  In clinical settings, psychologists use assessment tools during sessions. These assessment tools includes psychological testing. Unfortunately in Pakistan, we have psychological tests that are not based on our culture and values. And also those tests need to be validate on our population. In 2018, I have done my thesis during my MS clinical psychology. My thesis was bases on Validation of non verbal learning test. That test was made by Dr Zahid Mehmood (late) in Scotland, on nurses. That test was very unique because it includes the shapes that can be used in any culture. The shapes were not like any circle , square, etc but those shapes were very different and cannot be named.  My project was to validate it on school children age range between 8 to 10 years. And then it was suggested to compare wit

Baby blues

 Baby blues In this blog I will discuss briefly about the condition named as baby blues. It's not a disease but a condition or an emotion. Just after giving birth to a child, a woman can have this feeling, it starts after 2 or 3 days of delivery. It's symptoms include sadness, guilt and lack of interest in activities.  It may last for 2 or 3 weeks. This is due to the lack of sleep, tiredness, looking after baby 24/7, and also due to not getting enough mental, emotional and social support. It is normal for each woman to have these symptoms after delivery but one should consult a doctor or psychologist if symptoms gets worsen or lasts more than 2 to 3 weeks. do not overlook the symptoms that maybe your loved one have. Overthinking is always associated with any psychological problem or condition. Family support, spirituality or faith and social support cna help a person to overcome with the disturbing symptoms.   Look around yourself may be someone need your support.💕 It is i